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2014 Trip Six, Oct. 9-11, Deb and Rebecca’s Wedding and Fall in Canada

Written in Cambridge OH Thursday Oct. 16 for Thursday to Saturday Oct. 9-11 in Ivoryton, CT

Well, we are back blogging. We took the weekend off to focus on and enjoy time with family and friends as we celebrated the marriage of our daughter Deborah to Rebecca. The marriage and the weekend were the whole reason behind this trip. We relaxed and enjoyed the time. We celebrated the wedding of two lovely women whose love for each other was evident to all. The blog for Sunday Oct. 12, Wedding Day, has been posted already. This post is to catch up on missed days before the wedding.

Thursday we drove to Boston and spent the day with Deb and Rebecca. Our contribution to the Friday night dinner was a batch of chocolate chip cookies and a batch of Russian teacakes. Luckily enough cookies were made that we could “test” them Thursday at dinner. Sarah and Sarah were arriving on an 8 PM flight so Chris and I drove to the airport and picked them up. Deb and Rebecca used the time while we were gone to finish up some last-minute details.

The wedding weekend and ceremony were planned by them. Both are people used to planning and making decisions. Everything was set out, with tasks assigned by day and person. Some times people say, don’t sweat the small stuff. But the detail allowed people to enjoy the weekend, knowing that all jobs would be handled. You did your task, if you were one of the people pitching in, and then went on to enjoy the activities.

Incarnation Conference Center

Incarnation Conference Center

Pickles the Peacock, unofficial greeter

Pickles the Peacock, unofficial greeter

People were able to choose to come Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. The ceremony would be at 5 PM Sunday. The location was the Incarnation Conference Center in Ivoryton, CT, about 30 miles east of New Haven. The Center was established in 1886 and is the oldest co-ed camp and conference center in America. The conference center was an excellent choice, combining sleeping rooms, well cooked meals, activities for adults and kids, and a chapel. It is a large property with woods and trails and boating/swimming and lake access. Since families were invited, younger people were also given some time at the petting zoo.

Friday night pizza dinner

Friday night pizza dinner

Friday night dinner was pizza and salad and possibly games and conversation. I say possibly since Chris and I went back to the airport in Hartford to pick up Jude and did not return until 11:30 pm.

1964 World's Fair talk

1964 World’s Fair talk

Saturday morning 8 AM yoga shall remain picture less. You will have to use your imaginations. After breakfast, Jason gave a wonderfully insightful and interesting talk on the New York’s World Fair in 1964. He provided us with background on World Fairs and the frequency with which they lose money–the ’64 one lost a bundle. He discussed Robert Moses, infamous NYC “master builder” and some of the goals that were set for this fair.

Technically it was not a World’s Fair according to the Bureau of International Expositions, even though it was called one. Only one is allowed per country in a ten-year period and Seattle had one in 1962 (remember the Needle?) In addition, New York’s was held for too long of a period of time and it charged exhibitors; a no-no for a sanctioned World’s Fair. This resulted in a failure of many other countries to participate and was one of the major reasons the fair lost so much money.

Most of the exhibits were from America and are remembered fondly by the many U.S. citizens, particularly from the Northeast, who attended. A number of the U.S. company exhibits had trend-setting displays, some of them could be seen as pre-cursors of Walt Disney’s future EPCOT. GM’s Futurama was very popular. The Vatican brought over Michelangelo’s “Pieta” which was a huge hit.

Pictionary people

Pictionary people

Pictionary

Pictionary

Saturday walk

Saturday walk

Walk participants

Walk participants

Early stages of the puzzle

Early stages of the puzzle

Later stage of puzzle making

Later stage of puzzle making

The afternoon schedule was shuffled due to rain in the morning and drizzle in the early afternoon. The softball game was moved to Sunday. The Sunday group walk was switched to Saturday and it was a popular activity. Card games, pictionary, and puzzle-making were well-attended. The primary puzzle people stayed up until 2 AM to complete the 1000 piece puzzle. 5 PM Mass was celebrated by Rev. Frank Sevola, a friend of Flo. The music was enhanced by four members of the Boston Paulist Center choir who came down to sing at Mass.

Scavenger hunt Team A gets ready

Scavenger hunt Team A gets ready

Scavenger hunt team B

Scavenger hunt team B

Working on the first clue

Working on the first clue

Victory

Victory

After dinner, the Saturday evening mood turned frantic. A two team scavenger hunt demonstrated the lust for winning by many of the participants. The winning team wore their first place ribbons proudly. Our musician from Mass stayed and provided a piano bar setting. There were several surprise, memorable singing/dancing performances by participants that shall remain private.

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Piano bar time

Ed and Chris 10/16 Cambridge OH 9:45 pm

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2014 Trip Six, Oct. 12, Deb and Rebecca’s Wedding and Fall in Canada

Ivoryton, CT October 12, 2014
Written Oct. 14 in Philadelphia

Deb and Rebecca

Deb and Rebecca

The clouds passed, the skies were blue, the day was beautiful. The great weather was a harbinger of a fantastic wedding and of a marvelous day to celebrate the marriage of Deb and Rebecca.

On the second or third day together depending on arrival day, the group gathered for the 9 AM breakfast. The Incarnation Center’s breakfasts always included fresh-cut fruit plus apples and bananas, cooked oatmeal, yogurt and granola, and cereals/bread/bagels in addition to the hot foods which this morning were scrambled eggs, waffles, and hash.

Stretching before the game

Stretching before the game

The wedding ceremony would not be until 5 pm. Most people were able to choose among a variety of activities before the ceremony commenced. Of course, the really serious type had already gone for a walk or run at 8 AM. Many people gathered for a 10 AM softball game with kids and adults. Lest you think this was not serious stuff, there was a 30 minute stretching/warm-up period before the game. But despite the stretching there were some bloopers, blamed on lack of recent experience in softball. The less than major league skill level was not important to the spectators; cheering and cat-calls were directed equally to both sides.

Softball game

Softball game

Softball game

Softball game

Softball game

Softball game

Boy, lunch tasted fantastic after that strenuous exercise. Chicken Caesar salad, along with other salads, prepared the way for the freshly baked chocolate cookies. In the afternoon, it seemed most people opted for an easy afternoon, boating activities on the lovely lake with fall colors was the most popular strenuous activity.

Lunch on Sunday

Lunch on Sunday

Lunch on Sunday

Lunch on Sunday

On the lake Sunday afternoon

On the lake Sunday afternoon

On the lake Sunday

On the lake Sunday

On the lake Sunday afternoon

On the lake Sunday afternoon

But not all could sit down and read the Sunday paper. A number of friends had generously volunteered to be responsible for specific areas of the decorating process. Decorations had to go up in the dining room and the lodge party room. The bar had to be re-stocked. Hair and make-up seemed to be a critical task for some. Tables had to be set just so for the dinner.

Decorating Sunday afternoon

Decorating Sunday afternoon

By 4 pm Deb and Rebecca gathered with immediate family for photos. Guests began to arrive shortly after and were greeted by Rebecca and Deb. The Incarnation chapel was filled to capacity as the brides walked down the aisle to sounds of “Breaking Light” by Vienna Teng. The ceremony was written by the two brides and included emotional and heartfelt blessings written by Rebecca’s sister Beth and Deb’s sister Sarah. And thus a union was formalized; a union that others have seen as being so right for each other. Or as the David Haas song that was sung said:
“I will weep when you are weeping, when you laugh,
I’ll laugh with you. I will share your joy and sorrow
till we’ve seen this journey through.”

Incarnation Chapel

Incarnation Chapel

Incarnation Chapel

Incarnation Chapel

Beth, Sarah, Sarah

Beth, Sarah, Sarah

Rebecca and Deb greeting people outside the door

Rebecca and Deb greeting people outside the door

Florence, Chris, Ed, Peter

Flo, Chris, Ed, Pete

The celebration continued in the Lodge. The Incarnation Center cooked a “Thanksgiving” dinner of roast turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy, cranberry relish, green bean casserole and cooked carrots along with salad and rolls. Toasts were offered by Pete, Flo, and Chris and Ed.

Pete and Flo giving toasts

Pete and Flo giving toasts

Chris and Ed toasting

Chris and Ed toasting

Rebecca and Deb

Rebecca and Deb

Dessert was in the lodge main room with the bar and dancing. Much effort had been expended in previous months taste-testing the offerings from various bakeries. Unfortunately I was not one of them but I salute the results of that difficult assignment. A selection of personal size desserts was presented including chocolate mousse cups, pecan pie, lemon tarts, peanut butter torte, german chocolate torte, cupcakes, etc.

Desserts

Desserts

Then the party began. By now, everyone pretty much knew everyone else and the dancing and conversation intermingled generously. The dancing continued until even the most steadfast was tired. A great ending to a great beginning of a marriage of two wonderful, loving people.

On  the dance floor

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

Enjoying the evening

Enjoying the evening

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

On the dance floor

Chris and Ed October 14, 11 pm for October 12.

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